
A while ago when I was struggling with binge eating I actually wrote in BOLD CAPS on the kitchen whiteboard “FOOD IS JUST SUSTENANCE”. Well the stupid saying didn’t work AT ALL because food is more than sustenance, food is nourishment.
Why nourish and not feed?
If you were to look at the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs, food is considered a physiological need and maybe just maybe that used to be true way back when our ancestors brains were pea size and they were still running after gazelles on foot and with no remorse they stab, kill and feed. That’s right our forefathers fed.
But now our brains have changed in so many ways, we run in sport shoes and we buy cleanly packed meat at the grocery store because we cannot imagine killing something that moves. So what makes you think we still fit into the primal hierarchy of needs when we don’t have the same primal environment anymore? Lets just say I am not resisting the Maslow’s theory but rather it is a very flat one dimensional template for a very multi-dimensional species like us.
The famous criticism is that Maslow’s hierarchy fails to explain the “starving artist” scenario, in which the aesthetic neglects their physical needs to pursuit of aesthetic or spiritual goals. Wouldn’t you think the opposite would apply too?
We are the “overfed people” in which food acts to soothe the lack of aesthetic and spiritual goals.
How do we nourish?
When I started focusing more on food as a creative outlet for myself, the pieces fell into place because food is nourishing a part of me that was long neglected. My artistic side is inadvertently connected to my appetite. To me the preparation had to be with care, thought, containing variety of colours and texture. These days I’m already satisfied even before I eat. I find myself visually stimulated by my food and the eating is just the icing on the Protein Cottage Cheesecake (sorry some self promotion here)
So you say to me “but Iron Cheftress I hate cooking!” Well fret not because I believe that we are nourished by different means. My suggestion for you is to find what nourishes you aesthetically or spiritually especially when it comes to food. It may be eating organic, eating local, texture, colours or even eating in a calm and soothing environment with good company.
*I am not a nutritionist or a psychologist. Merely a personal trainer who has learned from her own experience with binge eating. If you have contradictory opinions I am very opened to discussions here on the comments*